If this mama's lovely face looks familiar, it's because she is the talented photographer behind Origin Photography. As is the case with most photographers, she spends most of her time behind the camera, not in front of it. But every parent should get in the frame with their babies now and then, especially when you've just welcomed a brand new one into your life; documenting your presence in their lives is as much a treasure for them as it is for you. Regina, thank you so much for choosing me to capture a little slice of your life in honor of Bryce's arrival--it was such a treat to spend time with you and your delightful family.
Me: "Does she [the baby] prefer to be on her belly, or on her back?"
Dad: "I have no idea. We just got her, so we're still figuring her out."
Parents who crack jokes about their newborns right off the bat? My favorite. I have no talent for delivering jokes, but I love hearing them, even cheesy ones (for example, I laughed out loud at nearly all of these, though of course I did not LOLOLOL because, as Trevor Noah says, that is not even a thing).
I had the advantage here of having just worked with this family a few months ago--if you thought those darling blond curls look familiar, you were right--but a new baby's arrival can sometimes shift the dynamic of a family quite drastically, so there was still an element of the unexpected as I headed into the session. Then I walked in, and it turns out the most major thing that had changed was that Nora was now in a big girl room to let Blair have the nursery. Seriously, their smiles were as relaxed and bright as last time, and their shining faces conveyed not even a hint of stress or sleep deprivation. And you know, the joy and beauty in these images isn't just because they are all exceptionally good looking and impeccably dressed, or that their home is so tastefully finished (though all of those things are 110% true here, and I am still trying to unearth the secret to achieving that level of visual harmony as I send my kid out the door in Superman socks and a Star Wars shirt and hair sticking out in a thousand different directions).
No, this kind of loveliness can only come from just being you in the presence of the camera. With kids, that's easier to achieve; they're great about letting you know when they don't want to do something, and they will not hesitate to tell you what is up with zero filter. It's what I love most about working with small children. With adults, it can sometimes be trickier to persuade them into that zone; we sometimes just overthink it and fool ourselves into thinking we have more influence over our children than we actually do, or we actually just kind of forget how to be anything but our kids' keepers. But these, two, they never missed a beat. Whatever the girls were doing/wanting/crying about in any given moment, mom & dad just rolled with it. So,if you want to know the big secret to great family photos, there it is. Just roll with it. And cracking jokes to your photographer never hurts, either.
"If you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams". - Roald Dahl
The Brophys recently found me through my Mother's Day mini sessions to benefit Every Mother Counts* - Dad surprised Mom with this as a gift (the sweetest, right?). If you live around Chester County, you'll know that the weather forecast has 99% unreliable for the past few weeks, the heat sweltering and the rain sudden and fierce. After some hemming, hawing and a little nail-biting on my part as to whether the weather would cooperate at all, we settled on an evening that ended up giving us the most perfect light--as if that's what was meant to be all along. Cheesy as it may sound, love and happiness literally radiated out of all three of them, a collective family unit of shining sunbeams. And the ice cream! Little Mackenzie went after that cone like a champ, and I love that her parents were not one bit fussed about what might happen to her dress. As her mom said to me, life is short--I can't think of a better reason to enjoy every moment as much as humanly possible.
*If you missed this round, I occasionally offer limited mini session specials over on Instagram - make sure to connect with me there so you can stay in the loop!